I Wear Pink for Her…

Breast cancer does not discriminate between gender, race, ethnicity, socioeconomic status, nationality, marital status or religion. It affects both the young and old.

Although breast cancer affects both men and women, the prevalence is higher in women. It is the second highest cancer among women in the U.S., and the number one cancer among women worldwide.

This fashion set is for her…the woman who is a daughter, sister, wife, mother, friend, professional, best friend, niece, auntie, caretaker, known and unknown, survivor, heart imprint and legacy.

I wear pink for her... (breast cancer awareness in Valentino)

Dorm Room Style: College Girl, Go Pink!

Hey, college girl! This set is for you! It’s dorm life at its best. Pink. Stylish. Fresh. Fun. This set features signature dorm decor goodies from Victoria’s Secret.

Dorm Room Style: College Girl, Go Pink!

Apostolic Fashion No. 1 (MMG style)

I dubbed this set Apostolic Fashion because as an Apostolic lady, there’s a tell-tale way we tend to wear our skirts and dresses. (Smile!) This set features a white pleated skirt and peony textured jacket.

Apostolic Fashion No. 1 (MMGstyle)

How to Deal with an Angry Person

Anger is always looking for a place to rest—a place to call home. But you don’t have to allow it to claim your heart as its own.

We cannot control how other people talk and act. But we can control our own actions and reactions. The bible is a manual for righteous living; whether it’s about how to dress (modest apparel), or how to turn anger on its head. We can use God’s Word to direct our lives.

Words to Live By

I’m going to share three bible-based tips on how to deal with an angry person. These are not in-depth, but they are a starting point for conflict management—God’s way.

  1. Reply with a soft or gentle answer.
  2. Agree quickly with the person. The bible refers to the person you’re in disagreement with as your adversary.
  3. Don’t be friends with an angry person; don’t associate with people who are easily-angered.

A Soft Answer

A soft or gentle answer disarms the angry person. On a carnal level, it’s pretty hard to be soft and gentle towards someone who is yelling at you, name-calling or pushing buttons for a brawl. We want to yell back, sling out insults, and hurt the hurter. But this formula isn’t God’s method, but that of the flesh.  It’s a formula for mess. Grievous or harsh words is the spoon in the pot. Keep stirring and you’ll get more anger out of the person.

Go to higher ground, instead. Walk in the Spirit and remember Jesus. Recall how He didn’t say a mumbling word as He was spat upon, hit and beaten. This means you’ll practice some self-control by being silent at first, giving yourself time to consider your reaction and its consequences.

Proverbs 15:1 A soft answer turns away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.

The other person may think your meek demeanor is a sign of weakness, but you should know it is a mark of power. Why? Well, this formula for success came from God, so how can it be anything but powerful?! Also, it demonstrates you choose to not be controlled by your emotions by taking the time to think before you speak, craft a gentle word, and ultimately please God.

A Soft Answer Turns Away Wrath

Agree Quickly

God wants us to settle matters before we show up before a judge, mediator or third-party with the other person. He doesn’t want things to go that far. More importantly, God is the righteous Judge. Don’t show up before God with a matter unresolved between you and your brother or sister. God doesn’t even want our gift at the altar until we go to the person we believe has something against us.

Matthew 5:25 Agree with your adversary quickly, while you are in the way with him; lest at any time the adversary deliver you to the judge, and the judge deliver you to the officer, and you be cast into prison.

Agreeing with your adversary quickly or settling a matter doesn’t mean you’re admitting the other person is right. It means you’re not wanting to allow anger to get a hold of you or them, and cause either one of you to sin. Many times we allow anger to cause us to sin. We don’t think rationally when we are angry. The sooner you deal with and fix the problem, the better. We shouldn’t give a root of bitterness the chance to spring up. People all over are hating one another, walking around as spiritual murderers because of a disagreement, misunderstanding, hurt or neglect that bubbled into anger.

Don’t Associate

You’ve given a soft answer and agreed with your adversary quickly. They’re still angry, and seem to wrap their identity in being the mad one. What next? Prayerfully think and take proper action.

Why put or keep yourself in a potentially dangerous position by staying in the presence of someone who is always angry? You don’t have to take abuse and be the verbal, emotional or physical punching bag for someone who chooses to remain unhappy. You do not know if or when that anger may become rage.

Proverbs 22:24 Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious man you shall not go:

Furthermore, God doesn’t want us to learn the ways of angry people. He knows the power of mirroring, and how easily we may mirror another person’s bad behavior. If someone is angry all the time, the anger is a symptom of a deeper problem.  Pray for them, and continue to show kindness and love. Understand the anger is probably masking hurt. Yet, do not make this person your familiar or intimate friend. The spirit of anger that envelops him/her may try to consume you too.

Remember, be wise as serpents and harmless as doves.

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So Preppy: Pink Stripes and Denim

Button-down collar dress shirts paired with jackets and vests remind me of traditional prep school style.

Preppy: a person whose behavior and clothes reflect traditional prep school culture; a type of subculture; neat, classic conservative clothes with clean lines, modest fit and cut.

Can you model this style? Modesty is always the best policy!

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Ode to the Pink Dress

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The cliché color for girls is pink. What’s more girly than a pink dress? Ode to the Pink Dress Collection was inspired by the pink cotton poplin dress from Shabby Apple.

Ode to the Pink Dress

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